Post by greenteam on Dec 18, 2006 23:05:10 GMT -5
If you guys go for the United Effort I tossed out then this is a major talking point for the leader of the moms (perhaps ask Marsha Rosenbaum herself to lead the moms or maybe a strong Coloradan mother to lead?)
No matter how you pursue the next campaign - I believe this should be a major talking point: Parents basing talks about drugs on truth instead of searching their child's room, lying, and harsh punishments for experimenting (which studies show a large portion of parents did when they were young) -- appeal to those parents and let them know honesty IS really the best policy (heh maybe that could be the the united campagin's slogan)
The following is from www.Drugwarrant.com and shows a very responsible letter from a concerned mother to her son and shows something that not dealt out seriously in most house holds concerning drugs: Truth
A letter from Marsha Rosenbaum to her son.
September 7, 1998
Dear Johnny,
This fall you will be entering high school, and like most American teenagers, you'll have to navigate drugs. As most parents, I would prefer that you not use drugs. However, I realize that despite my wishes, you might experiment.
I will not use scare tactics to deter you. Instead, having spent the past 25 years researching drug use, abuse and policy, I will tell you a little about what I have learned, hoping this will let you to make wise choices. My only concern is your health and safety.
When people talk about ``drugs,'' they are generally referring to illegal substances such as marijuana, cocaine, methamphetamine ( speed ), psychedelic drugs ( LSD, Ecstasy, ``Schrooms'' ) and heroin. These are not the only drugs that make you high. Alcohol, cigarettes and many other substances ( like glue ) cause intoxication of some sort. The fact that one drug or another is illegal does not mean one is better or worse for you. All of them temporarily change the way you perceive things and the way you think.
Some people will tell you that drugs feel good, and that's why they use them. But drugs are not always fun. Cocaine and methamphetamine speed up your heart; LSD can make you feel disoriented; alcohol intoxication impairs driving; cigarette smoking leads to addiction and sometimes lung cancer; and people sometimes die suddenly from taking heroin. Marijuana does not often lead to physical dependence or overdose, but it does alter the way people think, behave and react.
I have tried to give you a short description of the drugs you might encounter. I choose not to try to scare you by distorting information because I want you to have confidence in what I tell you. Although I won't lie to you about their effects, there are many reasons for a person your age to not use drugs or alcohol.
First, being high on marijuana or any other drug often interferes with normal life. It is difficult to retain information while high, so using it - -- especially daily -- affects your ability to learn. Second, if you think you might try marijuana, please wait until you are older. Adults with drug problems often started using at a very early age.
Finally, your father and I don't want you to get into trouble. Drug and alcohol use is illegal, and the consequences of being caught are huge. Here in the United States, the number of arrests for possession of marijuana has more than doubled in the past six years. Adults are serious about ``zero tolerance.'' If caught, you could be arrested, expelled from school, barred from playing sports, lose your driver's license, denied a college loan, and/or rejected for college.
Despite my advice to abstain, you may one day choose to experiment. I will say again that this is not a good idea, but if you do, I urge you to learn as much as you can, and use common sense. There are many excellent books and references, including the Internet, that give you credible information about drugs. You can, of course, always talk to me. If I don't know the answers to your questions, I will try to help you find them.
If you are offered drugs, be cautious. Watch how people behave, but understand that everyone responds differently -- even to the same substance. If you do decide to experiment, be sure you are surrounded by people you can count upon. Plan your transportation and under no circumstances drive or get into a car with anyone else who has been using alcohol or other drugs. Call us or any of our close friends any time, day or night, and we will pick you up -- no questions asked and no consequences.
And please, Johnny, use moderation. It is impossible to know what is contained in illegal drugs because they are not regulated. The majority of fatal overdoses occur because young people do not know the strength of the drugs they consume, or how they combine with other drugs. Please do not participate in drinking contests, which have killed too many young people. Whereas marijuana by itself is not fatal, too much can cause you to become disoriented and sometimes paranoid. And of course, smoking can hurt your lungs, later in life and now. Johnny, as your father and I have always told you about a range of activities ( including sex ), think about the consequences of your actions before you act. Drugs are no different. Be skeptical and most of all, be safe. Love, Mom
An unsolicited letter from Marsha Rosenbaum's son.
November 15, 2006
Dear Mom,
It has been eight years since I entered high school on the heels of your famous advice about drugs: “Johnny – be skeptical and, most of all, be safe.” Although I’d like to tell you that I never needed your advice because I never encountered drugs, I’d prefer to be as honest with you as you have been with me.
Just as you predicted, I spent high school and college navigating a highly experimental teenage drug culture. While some of the substances that I encountered were illegal, like marijuana, cocaine, and Ecstasy, many were not, like alcohol, cigarettes, and Ritalin. Because you explained that a drug’s legality does not mean that it is better or worse for me, I approached every substance with skepticism, moderation and common sense.
Our household mantra of ‘safety first’ guided me through a maze of difficult decisions, particularly in college where alcohol use and abuse is widespread. Because you didn’t lie or exaggerate the risks of drug use, I took your warnings seriously. I always made plans for sober transportation; I refused to leave friends alone if they were highly intoxicated; and I was never afraid to call home if I found myself in a dangerous situation.
Of course you advised me not to use drugs, but as an expert in the field, you knew that I was likely to experiment. Most parents panic in response to this likelihood, but you and Dad remained levelheaded: You didn’t impose rigid rules that were bound to be broken, and you didn’t bombard me with transparent scare tactics. Instead you encouraged me to think critically and carefully about drug use.
When I inquired, you armed me with truthful, scientifically based information from which I could make my own decisions. This was excellent practice for adulthood, and we built a loving relationship based on trust and truth. Mom, your work does so much more than teach parents how to talk to their kids about drugs; your work keeps parents and kids communicating at a time when most kids shut their parents out. Our relationship is a perfect example. For never ceasing to communicate with me, even when I tried to shut the door on you, and for tirelessly keeping me, my sisters, and so many other kids safe, thank you.
No matter how you pursue the next campaign - I believe this should be a major talking point: Parents basing talks about drugs on truth instead of searching their child's room, lying, and harsh punishments for experimenting (which studies show a large portion of parents did when they were young) -- appeal to those parents and let them know honesty IS really the best policy (heh maybe that could be the the united campagin's slogan)
The following is from www.Drugwarrant.com and shows a very responsible letter from a concerned mother to her son and shows something that not dealt out seriously in most house holds concerning drugs: Truth
A letter from Marsha Rosenbaum to her son.
September 7, 1998
Dear Johnny,
This fall you will be entering high school, and like most American teenagers, you'll have to navigate drugs. As most parents, I would prefer that you not use drugs. However, I realize that despite my wishes, you might experiment.
I will not use scare tactics to deter you. Instead, having spent the past 25 years researching drug use, abuse and policy, I will tell you a little about what I have learned, hoping this will let you to make wise choices. My only concern is your health and safety.
When people talk about ``drugs,'' they are generally referring to illegal substances such as marijuana, cocaine, methamphetamine ( speed ), psychedelic drugs ( LSD, Ecstasy, ``Schrooms'' ) and heroin. These are not the only drugs that make you high. Alcohol, cigarettes and many other substances ( like glue ) cause intoxication of some sort. The fact that one drug or another is illegal does not mean one is better or worse for you. All of them temporarily change the way you perceive things and the way you think.
Some people will tell you that drugs feel good, and that's why they use them. But drugs are not always fun. Cocaine and methamphetamine speed up your heart; LSD can make you feel disoriented; alcohol intoxication impairs driving; cigarette smoking leads to addiction and sometimes lung cancer; and people sometimes die suddenly from taking heroin. Marijuana does not often lead to physical dependence or overdose, but it does alter the way people think, behave and react.
I have tried to give you a short description of the drugs you might encounter. I choose not to try to scare you by distorting information because I want you to have confidence in what I tell you. Although I won't lie to you about their effects, there are many reasons for a person your age to not use drugs or alcohol.
First, being high on marijuana or any other drug often interferes with normal life. It is difficult to retain information while high, so using it - -- especially daily -- affects your ability to learn. Second, if you think you might try marijuana, please wait until you are older. Adults with drug problems often started using at a very early age.
Finally, your father and I don't want you to get into trouble. Drug and alcohol use is illegal, and the consequences of being caught are huge. Here in the United States, the number of arrests for possession of marijuana has more than doubled in the past six years. Adults are serious about ``zero tolerance.'' If caught, you could be arrested, expelled from school, barred from playing sports, lose your driver's license, denied a college loan, and/or rejected for college.
Despite my advice to abstain, you may one day choose to experiment. I will say again that this is not a good idea, but if you do, I urge you to learn as much as you can, and use common sense. There are many excellent books and references, including the Internet, that give you credible information about drugs. You can, of course, always talk to me. If I don't know the answers to your questions, I will try to help you find them.
If you are offered drugs, be cautious. Watch how people behave, but understand that everyone responds differently -- even to the same substance. If you do decide to experiment, be sure you are surrounded by people you can count upon. Plan your transportation and under no circumstances drive or get into a car with anyone else who has been using alcohol or other drugs. Call us or any of our close friends any time, day or night, and we will pick you up -- no questions asked and no consequences.
And please, Johnny, use moderation. It is impossible to know what is contained in illegal drugs because they are not regulated. The majority of fatal overdoses occur because young people do not know the strength of the drugs they consume, or how they combine with other drugs. Please do not participate in drinking contests, which have killed too many young people. Whereas marijuana by itself is not fatal, too much can cause you to become disoriented and sometimes paranoid. And of course, smoking can hurt your lungs, later in life and now. Johnny, as your father and I have always told you about a range of activities ( including sex ), think about the consequences of your actions before you act. Drugs are no different. Be skeptical and most of all, be safe. Love, Mom
An unsolicited letter from Marsha Rosenbaum's son.
November 15, 2006
Dear Mom,
It has been eight years since I entered high school on the heels of your famous advice about drugs: “Johnny – be skeptical and, most of all, be safe.” Although I’d like to tell you that I never needed your advice because I never encountered drugs, I’d prefer to be as honest with you as you have been with me.
Just as you predicted, I spent high school and college navigating a highly experimental teenage drug culture. While some of the substances that I encountered were illegal, like marijuana, cocaine, and Ecstasy, many were not, like alcohol, cigarettes, and Ritalin. Because you explained that a drug’s legality does not mean that it is better or worse for me, I approached every substance with skepticism, moderation and common sense.
Our household mantra of ‘safety first’ guided me through a maze of difficult decisions, particularly in college where alcohol use and abuse is widespread. Because you didn’t lie or exaggerate the risks of drug use, I took your warnings seriously. I always made plans for sober transportation; I refused to leave friends alone if they were highly intoxicated; and I was never afraid to call home if I found myself in a dangerous situation.
Of course you advised me not to use drugs, but as an expert in the field, you knew that I was likely to experiment. Most parents panic in response to this likelihood, but you and Dad remained levelheaded: You didn’t impose rigid rules that were bound to be broken, and you didn’t bombard me with transparent scare tactics. Instead you encouraged me to think critically and carefully about drug use.
When I inquired, you armed me with truthful, scientifically based information from which I could make my own decisions. This was excellent practice for adulthood, and we built a loving relationship based on trust and truth. Mom, your work does so much more than teach parents how to talk to their kids about drugs; your work keeps parents and kids communicating at a time when most kids shut their parents out. Our relationship is a perfect example. For never ceasing to communicate with me, even when I tried to shut the door on you, and for tirelessly keeping me, my sisters, and so many other kids safe, thank you.